Scripture Reference: Genesis 28:10-30:25 and 31:3 and 33:4
Suggested Emphasis or Theme: Sometimes we learn lessons from bad things that happen to us.
Having deceived his brother and father Jacob escaped to relatives in Haran. During the journey Jacob dreamed of a stairway between heaven and earth on which angels were ascending and descending to the Lord at the top. God reassured Jacob of his blessing and promise. Undeserving as he was this promise sustained Jacob over the next twenty years as he worked for his uncle Laban and built a family and wealth. Eventually, Jacob returned to his home and was surprised to find that his brother, Esau, welcomed him with open arms.
Although there are many important events that take place in Genesis 28-33 trying to cover all of them in one lesson would be too confusing. This lesson will centre on the movement of Jacob from his family to Haran and then back again and how Jacob is part of God’s plan. As you teach this you will want children to understand some basic facts that give context to their understanding of the Old Testament and God’s promises:
- Jacob was a descendant of Abraham. Despite Jacob’s faults God chose him to carry on with the same blessings given to Abraham (Genesis 12:1-3) and Isaac (Genesis 26:23-24), and
- Jacob became the father of twelve sons (eleven is this lesson and the last after his return home- Genesis 35:16-20), and
- God changed Jacob’s name to Israel (Genesis 32:28) .
In the lesson Jacob, Esau and the Birthright we were first introduced to the character of Jacob. He had lived a life filled with jealousy and deception that culminated in him stealing his brother, Esau’s, expected position as leader of the family. Our natural reaction to Jacob’s story might be that he does not deserve to receive God’s blessing and protection. The story of Jacob, however, reminds us that God’s plans are not dependent on man’s behaviour. After all, NONE of us deserve to represent God in any of the ways that he asks us to. The people of God are not perfect heroes and children should not be under the impression that they are. Instead, human imperfection is the backdrop of God’s perfection and amazing work.
(Genesis 28:10-22) As Jacob flees from his family in Beersheba he stops along the way one night to sleep. At this time he dreams of a stairway stretching from earth to heaven. God is at the top of the ladder and angels are going up and down it. It is here that God restates the blessing that he had previously given to Abraham and Isaac. Jacob recognises the magnitude of this promise, builds a pillar there and calls the place “Bethel”. He also strikes what appears to be a bargain with God. If God takes care of him as he says then he vows to give God a tenth of what he has. It wasn’t until many many years later that a “tithe” becomes part of the Mosaical Law (Leviticus 27:30-32).
(Genesis 29:1-30) Jacob has always been the one who deceives but, once he connects with his family in Haran, he learns what it means to be the recipient of deception. Jacob strikes a bargain to work for his uncle Laban seven years in exchange for marrying Laban’s beautiful younger daughter, Rachel. Seven years later, at the wedding, Laban switches the brides so that Jacob marries his older daughter, Leah, by mistake. Jacob is allowed to marry Rachel too under the condition he works another seven years.
(Genesis 29:31-31:31) Bargains, tricks and deception all play a part in the lives of Laban, Jacob and Jacob’s wives. Jacob’s family grows but with much angst and sorrow. His wives are jealous of each other and even bargain over the nights they spend with their husband. They connive to have children by Jacob and even offer their servant girls to him. Twenty years after leaving his home Jacob now has two wives, two maidservants who mothered some of his children, eleven sons and one daughter. (His last son will be born after he returns to the place of his birth.)
God commands Jacob to leave and return to his home but Laban attempts to squeeze even more years of work out of him. Jacob uses his knowledge of animal husbandry to trick Laban and accumulates large herds of animals. As if all of this was not enough, Rachel steals from her father as the family sneaks away from Laban to return to Beersheba where Jacob had come from. An angry Laban follows and Laban and Jacob finally come to make a kind of treaty and separate.
(Genesis chapters 32-33) Ironically, the only person who acts righteously in this story is Jacob’s brother, Esau. Jacob, knowing he had previously treated his brother terribly, carefully plans all sorts of appeasements as he meets Esau. When they do come together, however, Esau welcomes Jacob with open arms.
Just before their meeting Jacob spends time alone. God, in the form of an angel, comes to Jacob and wrestles with him. It is at this time that Jacob’s name is changed to “Israel” because, as the angel said, “you have struggled with God and with men and have overcome.” (Genesis 32:28)
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Way to Introduce the Story:
Have a number of different types of pillows and let the children vote on which is the most comfortable one to sleep on. Be sure and include a large stone among the choices. Discuss the comforts and discomforts of each choice. “Remember how Jacob tricked his father and brother in last week’s story? Jacob’s parents sent him on a trip to see his relatives in Haran. They wanted him to find a wife there. On the first night of the journey Jacob slept out in the open. He used a stone for his pillow. After all of the bad things that Jacob did, he was about to learn some good lessons from the Lord.”
Jacob had tricked his father and brother. His brother was so angry he wanted to kill him. Jacob’s mother told him to leave and go to their family in Haran. He could find a wife there and someday, when his brother was no longer angry, maybe he could come back.
Jacob stopped for the night on his way to Haran. He slept on the ground. For a pillow he laid his head on a stone.
When you sleep do you ever dream? Sometimes we have good dreams and sometimes we have scary dreams. But Jacob had a beautiful dream. He dreamed that a stairway or ladder reached from the ground all the way into heaven! And on that long stairway he saw angels going up and down! And who do you think was at the top of the ladder? God!
Jacob heard God say, “I am the God of your grandfather Abraham and your father Isaac. The ground you are lying on is yours. I will give it to you and your children and your children’s children. You will be the father of a great nation. There will be many children and they will populate this land.” God also promised to be with Jacob’s family and protect them.
The next morning Jacob got up very early and placed the stone on which he’d been sleeping onto its side. He poured olive oil on it and named the special place Bethel. He prayed, “Oh God, if you protect me and give me food and shelter on this journey, I will always remember you as the true God. This place will be a special place of remembrance.”
Jacob now knew that God wanted him to be good. He would be the leader of a very big family. Someone from his family would bring blessings to the whole world. He knew he was not alone—God was with him.
When Jacob finally arrived in Haran all his relatives were happy to see him. Jacob met his Uncle Laban’s beautiful daughter, Rachel, and her older sister, Leah. Rachel was beautiful.
Jacob worked hard helping Laban tend his sheep. After he had been there a month, Laban wanted to know how much he should pay Jacob. Jacob had fallen in love with Rachel so he had an idea. He told Laban that he would work for him for seven whole years and at the end of that time, Laban could give Rachel to Jacob as a wife. Laban agreed.
After seven years the time came for Jacob and Rachel to get married. Do you remember how Jacob had been deceitful and played a trick on his father, Isaac? Now Jacob was the one that was tricked! Jacob thought he was marrying Rachel but Laban switched the brides. Instead of Rachel, Laban gave his older daughter, Leah, to Jacob. Jacob could not see Leah so he thought he was marrying Rachel. The next morning, when the sun came up, Jacob saw that his new wife was Leah!
Jacob was very angry with Laban but Laban said it was unfair for the younger sister to marry before the older. Then Laban had an idea. He would let Jacob marry Rachel too. Men in those days sometimes had more than one wife. Laban said that Jacob could marry Rachel now but he would have to work another seven years in exchange. Jacob agreed.
Rachel and Jacob got married but Jacob always loved Rachel the most. As the years went by Jacob’s family grew. Leah had a number of children but many years passed before Rachel finally had children.
Eventually, Jacob became the father of twelve sons and one daughter. He did not always obey God. Some of the children were born to his wives and some were born to his wives’ servants.
Laban did not like it when Jacob said God wanted him to take his family and return to where he had come from. Jacob agreed to stay and work for a few more years. Jacob only had a few sheep but he tricked Laban and made sure he had many sheep before the time came to leave. God told Jacob it was time to go. Laban was angry but Jacob and his family left anyway.
Before Jacob arrived at his old home he had a visit from God (in the form of an angel). The angel wrestled with Jacob. The angel told Jacob that he was a fighter and so his name would no longer be “Jacob” but would be changed to a new name that suits a fighter. His new name would be called “Israel.”
Jacob was very afraid to meet his brother Esau again. Esau had been very angry with him all those years ago. Jacob sent servants ahead of him with many gifts for Esau. Jacob even bowed down to Esau when he saw him.
But Jacob did not need to be worried. Esau ran up to his brother and hugged him. He was so happy to see Jacob. Jacob was home now.
Back when Jacob had the dream about the staircase God had told him that he would watch over him. Sometimes good things happened in Jacob’s life and sometimes bad things happened. Every time, in good and in bad, God kept his promise and took care of Jacob.
God took care of Jacob and God can take care of you.
Ways to Tell the Story:
This story can be told using a variety of methods. Always remain true to the facts found in the Bible but help children connect to its meaning by using drama, visual aids, voice inflection, student interaction and/or emotion.
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- Why did Jacob leave his families’ home and go to Haran? Esau wanted to kill him for stealing the family blessing.
- What did Jacob use for a pillow one night when he was travelling to Haran? A smooth stone
- What did Jacob see in his dream? A ladder between heaven and earth with angels going up and down on the ladder. God was at the top of the ladder.
- What were the names of Laban’s daughters? Rachel and Leah.
- After working seven years, Laban said Jacob could marry Rachel. What happened? Laban tricked him into marrying Leah instead.
- What happened when Jacob found out that he had been tricked? He married Rachel too and then worked another seven years.
Learning Activities and Crafts:
- To recreate the story, set up a ladder in the room and have the children draw or make angels and place them on the steps.
- Use a paper or real rock for the children to lay their head on while listening to the story.
- Walk outside and let the children find a stone that they think would be a comfortable pillow.
- Make angels for a craft project.
- Have children make puppets and perform a show to retell the story.
- Let children share some of the dreams they have had.
- Put a towel, sheet, or piece of cloth on the head of one of the students and let them represent Jacob. Conduct the class like an interview and let the children ask Jacob questions.
- Paint rocks.
- Talk about bad things that have happened in your life and what you have learned from them.
- Discuss Romans 8:28
- Sing “Father Abraham“.
- Check the Teaching Ideas page on this website for ideas that are adaptable to any lesson.
- Find other ideas on the Pinterest Board “Abraham, Isaac and Jacob“
Other Online Resources:
- Colouring page and puzzle worksheets about Jacob and Esau at http://calvarycurriculum.org/
- Jacob’s Dream colouring page and puzzle worksheets (Jacob’s Dream) at http://calvarycurriculum.org/
- Colouring page and puzzle worksheets about Rachel and Leah at http://calvarycurriculum.org/
- Colouring page and puzzle worksheets about a later evernt when Jacob’s name was changed to Israel at http://calvarycurriculum.org/
- Colouring page of Romans 8:28 at http://www.teacherhelp.org/
- Craft: Directions for building a pretzel ladder at http://www.dltk-bible.com/
- Various activities and puzzles specifically about Rachel at http://gardenofpraise.com/
- Various activities and puzzles specifically about Leah at http://gardenofpraise.com/
- A good selection of both online and printable puzzles, activities and story words covering Jacob’s entire life) at http://gardenofpraise.com/