Scripture Reference: 1 Samuel 20
Suggested Emphasis: Do not be jealous.
David moved to Saul’s house. Saul often asked him to play the harp for him when he was upset. Saul became jealous when the people began to prefer David over him. In his jealousy, he threw a spear at David and tried to kill him. Saul’s son, Jonathan, was David’s friend, and he helped David escape from Saul.
Even very young children can relate to the idea of friendship. In their interactions on the playground or at school they understand the difference between loyal friends and bullies.
Only David and his family and the elders at Bethlehem knew that Samuel had anointed David as the future king of Israel. David led a normal life otherwise. Because he was a good musician, he seems to have become a part-time musician to the king. David still lived at home and went to the king when he was needed (1 Samuel 16:14-23).
Although we sometimes think of Jonathan and David as very young when this story occurred, they were grown men. David was no longer the young man who sometimes came to soothe the king with music. The battle with Goliath had already taken place. The two men had fought in a number of battles since that time. After a rough start, David was even married to Saul’s daughter (1 Samuel 18:17-29).
Jonathan and David made a vow of friendship and sealed it with gifts. Jonathan gave David his robe, tunic, sword, bow and belt (1 Samuel 18:1-4).
The two men were friends despite King Saul’s growing rage-filled jealousy. David’s victory over Goliath and subsequent battles changed him from an obscure rural shepherd to a national hero. Songs were even sung in the street praising David over King Saul. Each time Saul sent David into a new battle, he was victorious, and the people loved him even more (1 Samuel 18:5-16).
Saul must have felt trapped. On the one hand, he wanted to kill David and get him out of the way; but on the other hand, he needed to maintain the goodwill of his subjects. Over time, Saul made more than one attempt against David’s life. David ran from Saul, but Jonathan worked hard for reconciliation. Sadly, this was not successful.
It is helpful to read 1 Samuel chapters 18-20 to understand the context of this friendship and escape. The chapters can be broken down as follows:
- (1 Samuel 18)
David and Jonathan’s friendship. Saul’s growing jealousy. David marries King Saul’s daughter.
- (1 Samuel 19:1-24)
Saul wants to kill David, but Jonathan intervenes. Saul’s daughter (David’s wife) helps David escape Saul. David goes to live with the prophet Samuel, and Saul attempts to hunt him down.
- (1 Samuel 20:1-34)
David returns to secretly meet with Jonathan. Jonathan attempts to make peace between his father and David, but King Saul is set on killing David. Saul even attempts to kill Jonathan for taking David’s side.
- (1 Samuel 20:35-42)
As this was going on, David had remained hidden. Now, using a set of secret signals involving arrows, Jonathan made it known to David that there was no hope of a reconciliation with King Saul. After a sad parting, David leaves the court and his friend permanently.
At the conclusion, these two men parted in tears. Although they would not be together, David never forgot his friend. When David finally became king many years later, he showed kindness to Jonathan’s son, Mephibosheth.
David was to spend many years on the run from Saul. In fact, the king did not need to worry about David. Although Samuel had anointed David as the future king, David waited his turn. He respected the position of the king and would not take the kingdom by force. The king’s jealousy ruined many lives.
Way to Introduce the Story:
Discuss good friends that you have had and share some adventures with the class. Photos of you and some friends (as adults or children) would be good. Perhaps the children can share some things that they have done with their friends. “In today’s story we are going to learn about two men who were very good friends. They were friends even when bad things began to happen to one of them.”
Sometimes Saul was sad, and he liked to hear music played on a harp. Sometimes he liked to hear people sing good songs. It made him feel better. Saul knew that David could sing and play the harp. King Saul invited David to come to the palace sometimes and play and sing for him.
When David was at the palace, he often saw Saul’s oldest son, Jonathan. David and Jonathan became very good friends. They made a promise to each other that they would always be friends no matter what happened. Jonathan wanted to show David that he loved him as a friend. He gave David his tunic and the robe that he was wearing. He also gave him other gifts. He gave David his belt and sword; He even gave him his bow and arrows. It made Jonathan happy to give gifts to his friend.
Everyone seemed to like David. Everyone talked about how brave David was. The women even sang songs about brave David. Jonathan was glad that people liked David. When good things happened to David, Jonathan was happy for his friend.
But Jonathan’s father, King Saul, was not happy for David. Sometimes, when David played his harp for Saul, Saul started thinking about all of the good things that happened to David. He thought the people might like David better than their king! Saul became very jealous. The Bible says that Saul had a “jealous eye”. That meant that Saul always watched David and wished for the things that David had. Saul was jealous that the people liked David. Saul was jealous that Jonathan liked David. Soon, everything that Saul saw about David made him jealous.
When people get jealous, sometimes it makes them do bad things. Jealousy can make us feel angry. One day Saul got so angry that he threw a spear at David. David was able to get out of the way just in time. David ran away.
When Jonathan heard about what happened to his friend, he quickly went to talk to David.
“Don’t worry, David,” said Jonathan. “I will talk to my father. I’m sure he will be sorry for what he did!”
Jonathan talked to King Saul about David. Jonathan reminded Saul that David was a good man and that he loved God very much. Saul told Jonathan he was sorry for what he had done. He said that he would not do it again.
But Saul did do it again. Later, he tried to kill David with his spear again. David was able to jump out of the way and run away.
Jonathan was very sad when he heard about what his father had done to David. He told David to hide while he talked to his father again. David hid by some stones.
“Stay hidden by the stones,” said Jonathan. “After I talk to my father I will come back to this place and shoot some arrows. Listen carefully, if you hear me tell my helper that the arrows are far away then you will know that you are in danger from Saul. That will be my special signal to you.”
Jonathan went to find his father. When Jonathan talked to Saul about David, Saul became very angry. He did not like David. In fact, he hated David. He even ordered some men to try to find David and kill him. Jonathan tried to take up for his friend. When Jonathan said that David was good, Saul became really angry. He was so angry that he even threw a spear at his own son, Jonathan.
Jonathan was very sad. He was sorry that his father was so jealous and mean. He knew he had to give a message to David so that David could run away and be safe. Jonathan took his bow and arrows out to the field and shot an arrow far away. The helper who was with him ran to find the arrow. Jonathan yelled to him to go very far to find it.
Later, when the boy had gone back to the palace, David came out of his hiding place to talk to Jonathan. They were both very sad, and they both cried. David knew he had to leave his friend.
“Just remember, Jonathan, we will always be friends,” said David.
“Yes, I will always remember you,” answered Jonathan.
David left Jonathan and the palace, and he did not come back for many, many years. Saul was jealous of David for the rest of his life. David had to always move from place to place because Saul tried to chase him and hurt him. David and Jonathan never saw each other again.
Ways to Tell the Story:
This story can be told using a variety of methods. Always remain true to the facts found in the Bible but help children connect to its meaning by using drama, visual aids, voice inflection, student interaction and/or emotion.
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- Why did Saul ask David to come to the palace? To sing and to play his harp
- Who was David’s best friend? Jonathan
- What gifts did Jonathan give to David? Tunic, robe, belt, bows and arrows, and his sword
- What did Saul feel towards David? Jealousy
- When Saul got very jealous of David, what did he do to him? He threw a spear at him.
- When David left, what did he promise Jonathan? That they would always be friends.
- Ha-la-la-la Song
- Books of the Old Testament Song
- Refer to the Song Page on this website for more options.
Learning Activities and Crafts:
(How to choose the best learning activities for my teaching situation)
- Discuss gifts that you have exchanged with friends.
- Draw a big eye on the board or on a piece of paper. Have the class read 1 Samuel 18:9 . Some versions of the Bible say Saul kept a “jealous” eye on David, and others say he kept a “close” eye. In either case, Sault viewed David in a different and critical way. Discuss what can happen when we are jealous (fighting, stealing, refusing to talk to each other, not being friends, etc.)
- Look up “jealousy” and “envy” in the dictionary.
- Place items found in the story inside a pillow slip or bag. Let the children pull out one item at a time and tell how it relates to the story. (spear, belt, tunic, bow and arrows, songbook)
- Discuss how David played and sang for Saul. Plan a trip to go sing to someone who is elderly or unable to attend church.
- Let the children sit in a circle and pass a beanbag (or any item) around the circle from one person to the next. You (or a child you have chosen) should keep your eyes closed as the bag passes. At any given time – clap your hands once. The child who was holding the bag when you clapped should tell the class one good thing about having a friend who believes in God.
- Make friendship bracelets or any gift to give to a friend.
- Cut pictures from magazines depicting things that people can be jealous of. Glue these pictures on a large piece of paper and title the page “Jealousy”
Check the Teaching Ideas page on this website for ideas that are adaptable to any lesson.
Click here for “Jonathan Helps David Escape” printables to print on A4 size paper
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Other Online Resources:
- Colouring page and puzzle worksheets (Calvary Curriculum)
- Various puzzles and games at http://gardenofpraise.com/bibl15s.htm
- Friendship activities at corneroncharacter
- Kindergarten friendship activities at counselorkeri
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